New Year’s resolutions: a double-edged sword and a lesson on kindness

The arrival of a new year brings with it a sense of renewed possibilities. 

It’s a clean slate, so to speak, on which we can write our dreams and goals for a better, more productive year ahead. 

For many, myself included, New Year’s resolutions have become a yearly tradition, and while they can serve as powerful motivators for the year ahead, they can also be a source of great stress and self criticism. 

As we being the new year it is important that we remember to be kind to ourselves and to practice patience with ourselves and others. 

New Year’s resolutions can offer us a structured opportunity to reflect on what we want and how we can improve our lives. 

From taking better care of ourselves to saving money or nurturing relationships, there are plenty of ways we can commit to being better versions of ourselves. 

The act of setting goals helps us to focus on our values and prioritize what matters most. 

On the other hand, the pressure to meet overly ambitious or vague goals can create a devastating cycle of guilt and frustration. 

It is easy to get caught up in an all-or-nothing mindset when it comes to achieving your goals. 

This mindset is what leads most to abandon their resolutions and brand themselves a failure by Jan. 31. 

The desire for immediate results often leads to burnout and sets us up for disappointment. 

Remember, progress is not linear, and just because a resolution gets off to a rocky start, doesn’t mean you can’t work on it the rest of the year. 

As we embark on the journey that is 2025, I encourage each and every one of you reading this to be kind to yourselves and to practice patience with not just yourself but those around you as well. 

We are all in this together and only through kindness and understanding will we accomplish our goals. 

And whether you accomplish all of your goals, or one, or none, remember you are worth so much and no matter what, this small-town reporter is proud of you.

 Happy New Year.